Random Acts of Kindness

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“Random acts of kindness” refer to spontaneous expressions of everyday generosity – incidental good deeds sparked by the desire to help another person or brighten their day – with no expectation of reciprocity or reward. Random kindness takes countless forms, such as allowing someone to go ahead of you in line, paying someone a compliment, tucking an uplifting message inside a library book or bringing soup to a sick neighbor. Random kindness is considered “prosocial behavior” because of its contribution to the wellbeing of others and society as a whole. At the same time, a growing body of research indicates that practicing kindness improves the mental and physical health of the giver as well.

The term “random acts of kindness” became a kind of pre-internet meme in the San Francisco Bay Area in the mid-1980s. It originated with Anne Herbert, a Berkeley writer and activist who coined the exhortation to “practice random kindness and senseless acts of beauty,” believing that ordinary people behaving with compassion and reverence for the world could become a revolutionary force for peace.

The notion of random kindness quickly took on a life of its own, spawning a proliferation of books, organizations and communities dedicated to promoting these small but radical gestures. Founded in 1995, the Colorado-based Random Acts of Kindness Foundation (RAK) provides free resources (lesson plans, training materials, posters and more) to help schools, workplaces and families “make kindness the norm.” In 1997, Tokyo hosted the first conference of the World Kindness Movement (WKM), now an international NGO that seeks to “build a kinder and more compassionate world.”

Over the past two decades, the case for random acts of kindness has also been made by numerous academic studies across multiple disciplines. Indeed, research demonstrates that people who practice kindness feel happier and are better able to regulate their emotions. Further, the biochemical effects of expressing kindness can reduce blood pressure, inflammation and the hormones that produce stress. Moreover, research demonstrates that acts of kindness have broad ripple effects, as people on the receiving end of kindness – and even those who witness it – are inspired to extend the same everyday generosity to others. In this way, the evidence seems to support Herbert’s original vision, that the simple act of offering someone a flower, a smile or a helping hand can spark positive change in the world.

Contributor: Erin Brown

Source type Full citation Link (DOI or URL)
Publication

Kumar, Amit, and Nicholas Epley. “A Little Good Goes an Unexpectedly Long Way: Underestimating the Positive Impact of Kindness on Recipients.” Journal of Experimental Psychology 152, no. 1 (January 2023): 236–52. https://doi.org/10.1037/xge0001271.

https://doi.org/10.1037/xge0001271
Book

Hamilton, David R. The Five Side Effects of Kindness. Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, 2017.

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Publication

Rowland, Lee, and Oliver Scott Curry. “A Range of Kindness Activities Boost Happiness.” The Journal of Social Psychology 159, no. 3 (2019): 340-43. Rowland, Lee, and Oliver Scott Curry. “A Range of Kindness Activities Boost Happiness.” The Journal of Social Psychology 159, no. 3 (2019): 340-43. https://doi.org/10.1080/00224545.2018.1469461.

https://doi.org/10.1080/00224545.2018.1469461
Website

Pearson, Catherine. “The Unexpected Power of Random Acts of Kindness.” New York Times, September 2, 2022. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/09/02/well/family/random-acts-of-kindness.html.

https://www.nytimes.com/2022/09/02/well/family/random-acts-of-kindness.html
Publication

Suttie, Jill. “How Kindness Spreads in a Community.” Greater Good Magazine, November 18, 2020. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_kindness_spreads_in_a_community.

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_kindness_spreads_in_a_community